When my therapist first told me that I need to learn to love myself before my relationships will improve, I did not have the slightest clue what that meant. At the time I thought “what is there to love”. I was in a bad place and did not like myself very much. It took time, …
I saw a search term on my site that said “life hurts too much”. My heart went out to this person because I know EXACTLY how he or she feels. I have known many hard times and disappointments in my life. It seems like I am cursed or blessed (depending on how you look at …
I was caught up in a fantasy world for a long time. It was hard to come out of it because our fantasies are so much better than reality. But that is the rub isn’t it? Fantasies are NOT reality. Sometimes reality sucks. It’s just the way it is. So it becomes much easier to …
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In search of happiness…… I have changed Jobs 6 different times in my adult life thinking each time that “this new job will make me happy”. Happiness did not last. I decided to go into business for myself thinking that I would be happy if I could be my own boss. Happiness did not last. …