Can’t? or Won’t?

My father would always tell me “there is no such word as can’t”. There are always exceptions to a rule, but for the most part, this is true. We can do almost anything we want, we just don’t. So don’t use the word “can’t” anymore. Use the word “won’t”.  The word “won’t” gives you power. …

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How to make long term decisions

One of the search engine terms that lead someone to my site was “how to make long-term decisions”.    “Long-term” decisions can be tough.  I am assuming that when the person searching for this information used the term “long term” we are talking about decisions that cannot easily be undone.  Quitting a jog and getting another is …

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